Deliberate

Riding through life letting it happen is useful and necessary. As opposed to forcing it one way for our benefit. Some events are simply uncontrollable to a simple human such as ourselves. 

Along the way life offers opportunities for choice, we are asked to step up to the microphone and choose which direction we go, we don’t control the destination. 

The key is learning the difference when to let life happen and when to choose. We can learn by taking action with guts as trial and error, this develops experience, and listening to intuition.